due to having too many problems using live journal because of the layout and how it works, it is hard for me to use, and i wrote to live journal user support about it and they said there is no way to change it, so i am going to leave all the communities i belong to. i am keeping only individuals on my friends list. i am not deleting the account, yet. feel free to add me to your friend's list if you want to. and don't bother replying to this message, i won't see it.